MALE EMPOWERMENT: Who will the empowered females marry?

This century has being filled with trends of empowerment- focused directly at females, and ensuring gender equality. This wave has greatly catapulted women to the top, helping the female folk to achieve the great potentials inherent within them.

However, I am concerned. Why is there so much chaos within the family setting? Could it be the aftermath of neglect of the male folk speaking?

Could it be that neglecting the male folk has increased the background level of insecurity and is a predisposing factor to wife battery?

Why is no one empowering the men?

Who will the empowered females marry?

(Let us note that as women continually improve on themselves, they will seek to partner with men who are at par mentally and financially).

I understand that a lot of women are still not empowered, but in the next 50 years (or more, or less), there could be a paradigm shift.

P.S: I do not in any way endorse male dominance but if we are speaking about gender equality, we might as well view it from differing angles.

This is just my own perspective, I would love to hear yours.

See you next Thursday.

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