FEELINGS AND TUMORS

Happy new month!

Feeling: The capacity to experience strong emotions

Tumor: An uncontrolled growth or mass of body cells, which may be malignant or benign, and has no physiological function

Feelings are like tumors in the sense that most grow without our permissions.

Tumors can however be benign (harmless) or malignant (harmful and invasive).

Leading to the following thoughts:

1. Are some feelings actually harmless?

2. How malignant should feelings get before extrication?

3. Should benign feelings be treated with brave levity?

4. Can feelings be grown, as opposed to them growing on their own?

Answer them as you will, but we should all know the limits and boundaries when it comes to feelings. Instead of letting malignant feelings proliferate, even when we know they are destructive, it would be more advisable to use active ‘radiotherapy’ if needed.

The only reason cancer patients go through so much invasively stressful procedures is so they can live normal, healthy lives.

And so can you.

Blissful month ahead…

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